How did you leave social media

What happens when I leave social media? 6 things i learned

In 2013, I deleted all of my social media accounts. Well, years later, I'm glad I took the “extreme” step. If you are planning on quitting social media yourself, you may have questions about what to do next. If I speak from my own experience, here's what you can expect.

1. Unexpected reactions

When I got off social media, I encountered extreme reactions from friends and strangers. First, there was real concern from people wondering if something went wrong in my digital life. Some people thought I was on the contrary and tried either to force me or to force me to return. I've also received scornful looks and you'll be back in a week.

The fact that I was more willing to meet people in person was ignored. I refused "stop being antisocial" online was the subject of a never-ending debate.

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In any case, those around you will accept your decision, or at least their reactions will not affect you in one way or another. Make sure you have a standard line ready to explain your absence on social media while you chat.

2. Feel directionless online

Every time you open your browser, you can't decide what to do. You don't know where to go next because your internet hangouts (Facebook and Twitter) are gone. But do not worry. This won't take long as you will soon discover distractions of other kinds. You can even find more time for a new hobby. I used interesting newsletters and feeds as a substitute for social media.

Are you planning to end social media to avoid information overload? Watch out for the lingering temptation of social networks like Twitter and Instagram. These websites allow you to browse their content without an account.

3. Be outside the loop

You know those moments when everyone knows what's going on and you are the only unsuspecting person? Expect a lot more from them.

If you don't keep up to date with Facebook status, Instagram updates, and Twitter updates, you won't miss out on all of the testimonials in conversations. Often times you don't get jokes because "you had to be there". You also need to make requests to join other, often covert, social networks.

Would you like to see your best friends' vacation photos? You'll have to wait for her to mail it to you. It's not that you can log into Facebook or Instagram to see them, can you? By now everyone you know has seen them.

To counter the fear of missing out, you can increase your activity on group messaging apps like Hangouts and WhatsApp. You also need to find alternative, sometimes old, ways to keep in touch with friends and family. Remember that the solutions must be convenient for both parties.

4. Restricted access to certain sites

Only after you've deleted your Facebook and Twitter accounts can you see just how dependent the web is on these social media giants.

You may have to go without a lot of interesting services just because you don't have a Facebook or Twitter login to sign up for an account. What happened to good ol 'email signups?

5. Derived job search

Job hunting is hardest hit by the lack of social media presence. Great social media skills seems to be an integral part of job descriptions these days. It's a shame that social media skills are sometimes more important than the technical skills you need to fulfill a role.

Stay up to date on LinkedIn, take part in Twitter chats and participate in discussions in Facebook groups. This definitely opens up more opportunities to move forward in your career. (That's not a bad thing at all.) Of course, you may feel tempted to revive your social media profiles.

6. More headspace

I saved the best for last. When you quit social media and leave the first few months of withdrawal symptoms behind, you'll enjoy the headspace you reclaimed.

Life without social media can be very peaceful. No more wars, political raids, indecent quotes and poisonous acquaintances to deal with on a daily basis. Plus, there are fewer social media-related privacy and security nightmares to worry about.

The biggest gain is the automatic focus shift from what everyone else is doing to what you are doing. You are evaluating the mental range you need to do deep work.

You will surely want to use social media feeds several times a year. Don't feel guilty when this happens. Indulge yourself occasionally. When you see the same old stuff that you were trying to escape from, the situation is put into perspective for you.

When it comes to social media, never say never

You need to be ready to get back on social media as some aspects of your job may require it. Check if you can find an appropriate workaround instead.

If not, think of social media as a means to an end and do what you can to have social networks help you at work. Don't be afraid to cut back on your social media commitments if they interfere with your actual work.

I created a couple of social media accounts myself for a variety of reasons. However, I immediately deleted it within a few days because I no longer wanted to get caught in a digital whirlwind.

Lots of people thrive and enjoy the kind of dynamic, fast-paced interaction that social media offers. For many others, social media can have a negative impact.

In my opinion, there are no definitive or wrong approaches to social media. There are only those who work or don't work for you.

Of course, it's still worth considering whether we're better off without social media. If you think we want to do this forever, then you can delete your entire social media presence. Or, if you'd rather improve this part of your life than give up, there are ways to start enjoying social media again.If you're tired of social media and no longer enjoy using it, you may need to get back to basics. Here are seven tips to make social media fun again. Continue reading .

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